Tuesday 11 September 2012

What does friendship mean to me

1) Define "Theme" : This can be defined as the subject of a talk, a piece of writing, a person's thoughts, or an exhibition; a topic.

2) What does friendship mean to you?
Friendship is important to me but what is  more important, is quality over quantity. A good friend should be someone who understands without asking, and always knows the best ways to make me feel good about myself and life in general.

3)  What does loyalty mean to you?
Loyalty to me means being a true friend. Someone being there for me whenever I need it and will stick with me through thick and thin.

4) How would you react if you best friend betrayed you?
First off, I would resist the urge to character assassinate. It feels good in the moment, but afterwards, it seems quite immature. Secondly,I find someone who I trust and then talk about it, making sure that person is neutral. Not in a “he said, she said” kind of way, but talk through the situation and my feelings. And finally, I use it as an opportunity to get closer to other friends. They may have been my best friend, but they aren’t my only friend.

5) recall a situation where you thought you were betrayed only to find out you were wrong.
Once when I confided in my best friend, eventually, I heard the secret from someone else too. I thought my best friend was sharing my secret with others only to realize that I forgot that I told that person the secret too.


6) Have you ever been cheated on?
No.

7)What if you felt the betrayer was your best friend?
I would feel heart broken and deceived. If i cannot trust my best friend, who can I trust?

8) What length would you go to ensure payback to your friend?
I would do nothing. Pick myself up and move on.Vengeance belongs to God. It's up to him to wreak vengeance.

9) Call a situation where you caused grief to someone
I have no recollection of ever hurting anyone. If I did, it was unintentional and I was unaware.

10) If you were to choose punishment for that crime, what would it be?
The truth. Having that person express to me the way they felt about the situation is the most appropriate punishment because there's no feeling more dreadful than a heavy heart knowing that you've done something wrong. I have learned now that while those who speak about one's miseries usually hurt, those who keep silence hurt more.

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